10 Ways to Connect More with Your Neighbors

Not all of this might be a fit for you, but at least a few might help you get out of your comfort zone, and into greater more vulnerable connection with your community.


  1. Be Friendly: Smile and greet your neighbors whenever you see them. Small interactions can build strong connections.
  2. Learn Your Neighbors' Names: Make an effort to remember their names. Addressing someone by their name creates a sense of familiarity and respect.
  3. Hang Out in Your Front Yard: Spend time outside, whether playing games or just relaxing. This can naturally invite conversations with passing neighbors.
  4. Welcome New Neighbors: Introduce yourself to newcomers and consider bringing them a small gift, like cookies, to help them feel welcomed.
  5. Initiate Get-Togethers: Organize casual gatherings like cookouts or themed parties to encourage neighbors to come together and socialize.
  6. Pitch in to Help Each Other: Offer assistance during tough times, whether it’s helping with yard work or checking in on someone who’s unwell.
  7. Start a Supper Club: Connect with fellow cooking enthusiasts and take turns hosting meals, which can foster friendship through shared culinary experiences.
  8. Invite Kids or dogs for Playdates: Organizing playdates can strengthen community ties.
  9. Host a Block Party: Plan a neighborhood block party where everyone brings a dish, allowing everyone to mingle and enjoy each other's company.
  10. Borrow and Lend Freely: Foster a culture of sharing by borrowing items from each other. This builds trust and opens up communication between neighbors.